Things I’m allowed to do:

Feed the baby

Work (only at certain times)

Work (only with certain materials)

Work (only if the baby is not crying)

Work (only if it makes money)

Work (only if I don’t give it more attention than HIM)

Work (only if nothing needs to be cooked or cleaned)

Shower (not bathe, with specific water temperature, using specific cleaning supplies)

Take care of my other kids (only if the baby is okay first, because they are not as important)

Sleep (only if he is comfortable and happy otherwise he will find ways to sleep deprive me)

Work